Define Motivation for Yourself

As I said in my earlier definition of motivation , in its simplest motivation is
- the reason for an action
- that which gives purpose and direction to behaviour.

It can also be said to be
- what causes or stimulates a person to act.

I like these definitions because in all of them there is a verb or a “doing” involved. Motivation is only motivation if it gets you to take action. Taking action is what separates the losers from the winners. Taking action is the difference between wishing and dreaming.

Dreamers act. Wishers…well…they just wish their lives away hoping some fairy or genie will drop by and grant their three wishes. Problem is even if the genie or fairy does show up they likely won’t know what they really want.

YOU MUST DEFINE MOTIVATION FOR YOURSELF

What gets one person motivated may not work for someone else. Having a luxury car may work for one, but for another making a difference in other people’s lives may be their biggest desire.

You must define motivation for yourself. You must know what your own values and principles are. What really gets you excited? What makes you feel good about yourself? What are your spiritual guidelines? What is it you want?

Motivation is personal. You need to define motivation for yourself. This is important, because if you don’t you will likely get discouraged along the way. When the going gets tough you will give up the stuff.

BE THE ORIGINAL YOU WERE MEANT TO BE

The uniqueness of man is an undisputed fact. There are six billion or so people on this planet and not one of them has your finger prints. Now think about this if that boggles your mind – if you took all the people that ever lived from the creation of the universe, none of them would share your finger prints!

That’s how unique you are. That alone makes you special and there are thousands of features that are unique to you alone. You are one of a kind. So why shouldn’t you have your own dream and your own vision for what you want to be? Why shouldn’t you do something that’s never been done before?

YOUR MOTIVATION SHOULD BE BIG ENOUGH TO GET YOU TO ACT.

If you define motivation in a personal manner that is relevant to you, it will compel you to take action. If it does not then you haven’t found the right motivation. Keep searching. Look deep within yourself. If you find it, you will act. No man that ever truly discovered his “purpose” for living ever died without at least trying to achieve that purpose.

Motivation then is deeply tied to your goals. Your goals are in a true sense your motivation. That is why they are personal.

Your goals in life truly define who you are. That is why you need to dream big. Set huge goals. Small goals rarely get people to act. Big goals spur people to action. They are worth the risk. They are worth the effort. Who wants to slave away for mediocrity?

If your goal is big enough, the motivation will match the goal.