Problem Handling Part 2
by Zubli Zainordin
When an individual says, “I have a problem”, what is the weight, the size, the intensity, the degree, the position, and the gravity of the problem to him or her as seen in the manner he or she utters the statement non-verbally.
The question is “why?” Yes...why does this individual want to magnify a problem to be larger than himself or herself? Why does this individual burdened to a problem heavier than a 100 million pieces of bricks? Why does this individual let a problem be more important than other individuals whom he or she loves so much. Why does an individual want to do something and later produce a problem affecting him or her? Why does this individual construct a description of the problem and then blow it out of proportion as though it's the end of the world? Why?
The answer is attention. The emphasis on the “have a problem” rather than on the “I”. It is also an excuse for wanting attention from others due to the lack of "know thyself". Yes...attention means a payment that this individual is demanding from someone or everyone. A payment as in “pay attention to my problem!”.
The less the attention this individual received when faced with a problem, the more is his or her demand for attention. This individual can amplify and emotionalize the descriptions of the problem that he or she prefers to own or possess. Such a state in his or her being, thus portrays a limitation mentality rather than the abundance mentality.
Can't solve a problem? Elbert Einstein said: “We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them”.
View. Yes...view is a possible way out. What we see is what we get. To elaborate, what we see inside, is what we get outside. What we want outward, we first view inward. Each and everyone of us has a choice to decide and to commit whether to have a view of the actual life or to have an actual view of life. So when a problem arises in our view of life, it shall be better for us to say “fantastic”, then followed by asking, “what is so fantastic about this result?”. You may have known for a fact, that every adversity carries within it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit. In life, search for that seed of greatness bearing delicious fruits in the near future. When encountering a problem it is not so much the solution, but the lesson and experience we benefit in finding the solution. With the acceptance of that fact, now you may reframe in your mind a view that you want over and above the view that you do not want. The view that you conceive in your mind, and you believe, God willing, you shall achieve.
So after reading this article, what shall you do when you encounter a problem?
Lou Holtz said:Don't tell your problems to people: eighty percent don't care; and the other twenty percent are glad you have them”.
To me, first and foremost, relate not the problem to another soul. This is base on an understanding of, “add not that problem you are encountering to the problem I am now encountering”. Furthermore, a trouble from you may trouble others should you choose to publicize the problem.
Do you remember this story? A long time ago, there was a man who was standing at the edge of a mighty bridge. He has decided to jump off and plunge himself roughly 700 meters or much more below with the intention to end his life. Just as he
is about ready to jump, a passerby interrupted, “stop! Please step down here where it is safe”. The man refused. The passerby asked, “what are you trying to do?”. The man answered, “I want to kill myself”. The passerby again asked, “but why?” The man answered, “I have a problem”. The passerby started to discourage, “Now, step down here, and tell me your problem”. The man said, “I don't want to trouble you”. The passerby quipped, “No trouble, tell me your problem”.
So the man stepped down and began to tell the passerby his problem. After 30 minutes, both jumped the mighty bridge!
Well, the story drives a message here, that is, relate not to anyone when you encounter a problem. Including some free or paid services that provides advice which later may lead the teller to experience memories that are internally traumatic or damaging to the teller, the listener, or both.
To me, “conversations with God” is the best avenue every time a problem arises in our view of life. In so doing you may enjoy the progressive movements from endarkenment to enlightenment. Package together with numerous discoveries.
Wow! Let me share with you one of the discoveries I have enjoyed. “eyelids blinking”. Have you ever noticed that our eye-lids blink? There is a wonderful reason God intended for this to happen automatically. As a result I have found that a state of sleep-like and deep-sleep are approaches for us to get what we want in life or rid what we do not want in life.
Allow me to explain. The basis for all total success approaches is that you slow down your brainwave. The measurement for brainwave is cycle per minute (cpm). Slowing down your brainwave occurs at the following two points. First, the moment you fall to sleep. Second the moment you rise from sleep. Actually nobody falls or rise, the clue is one's own brainwave that falls and rises.
Zentha (beyond 21 cpm); 1) Alpha (14 cpm to 21 cpm); 3) Betha (7 cpm to 14 cpm); please note that at 7.83 cpm we reach earth harmony; 4) Tetha (3.5 cpm to 7 cpm); 5) Deltha (1.5 cpm to 3.5 cpm); 6) Deep Deltha (0.5 cpm to 1.5 cpm).
There is a point during the falling or rising of your brainwave, you hit 7.83 cpm. At this moment your mind becomes like a broadcast station, you may transmit messages when you are in tune with the universal mind, placed here by God.
Being the HQ, the universal mind returns transmission to master-mind groups near you. Then, synchronicity shall occur, and a miracle will happen; either you go to where the solution is, or the solution shall come to you.
Once you know this fact, you may choose the sleep-like approach, known as the seven steps to total success in life. These steps include:
An alternative is deep sleep. Or else sex-transmutation. Of course there are various offerings you may find at search engines. Otherwise, you may have your own device, choose one that your brainwave being set to the proper tuning into the mega-vibration of the universe.
After you have affirmed within, follow through by trusting your inner self with the result that you want. Soon you shall already stop saying "I have a problem". You are enjoying life by saying, "this is not the result I want in life, I shall change it beginning now".
In addition, when you read or hear someone says to you, "I have a problem", I am here definitely certain that you shall pass this article to him or her.