Power Principles For Discovering The Real YOU
Self actualisation is a widely used term and sometimes its meaning is misunderstood or misapplied. What does it mean to become self actualised and is it really possible for a person to attain this level of enlightenment?
Well, let’s start with the first question. What does it mean to be self actualised?
Self actualisation is simply “To develop or achieve one's full potential.”
Potential, then, has a lot to do with self actualisation. If we say that to be self actualised is to become your real self, then the question that arises is “if I am not my real self until I become self actualised then what am I now? Where is my real self?
The butterfly analogy
I liken the idea of the real self to a butterfly. A butterfly goes through several stages as it matures into its final form, or real self. First, it’s an egg, then a caterpillar, then a pupa and finally an adult butterfly. From the minute it is an egg it has the potential to become a butterfly. Now to the ordinary or unknowledgeable eye, an ugly looking caterpillar may be just that. But that ugliness is what will eventually give way to beauty.
So every stage of the butterfly’s growth and maturity brings it closer to its final form with wings and beautiful colours. It is a similar concept with becoming self actualised. It is a process of maturity to our ultimate form.A process of becoming a person that is as mature as people can possibly get. It is a process of becoming “beautiful” on the inside.
That is the difference with the butterfly analogy because whereas the butterfly’s transition is visible to the outside world, the process of self actualisation is an inner process. It is only visible by its fruit – our attitudes and actions.
With humans, though, the process is not as simple as that of the butterfly. What usually happens with many people is that they stop maturing when they are just caterpillars or pupae. They do not realise that those stages are not their ultimate form. They do not realise that they can be butterflies. So they go through life living as ugly caterpillars.
A few do realise that they can be better people and work to get out of their cocoon and become the people they were meant to be. These are the self actualised people.
Characteristics of self actualised people
So what are the characteristics of a person that is self actualised? Abaraham Maslow is oen fo the people that studied human behaviour and teh concept of self actualisation. He developed what is called the “hierarchy of needs.” Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is simply a ranked structure of behavioural stimuli that try to explain motivation. The hierarchy ranks a person’s needs, from the most basic to the most sophisticated as:
Physiological needs – food, shelter.
- Acceptance of self, of others, and of nature
- Identification with the human species as a whole and not just one’s family, friends, culture or nation
- Emphasis on higher level values such as justice, truth and simplicity
- Accurate perception of reality – able to understand things and people at a deeper level
- Discrimination between means and ends, between good and evil
- Resolution of dichotomies (conflicts) – able to resolve conflicts that plague most people due to highly developed, accepting philosophy of life
- Autonomy and resistance to enculturation
- Detachment and desire for privacy – enjoy being alone to pursue their interests or think
- Spontaneity, simplicity, naturalness
- Problem-centering – able to forget about themselves and focus on the problem or task at hand
- Creativity – are creative in a childlike, naive manner and can look at things in a fresh light
- Freshness of appreciation and richness of emotional reactions – can focus on the present
- High frequency of peak experiences
- (Intimate) Interpersonal relations – limited to a few people
- Democratic character structure – do not look at status of other people, but rather their values and character
- Philosophical, unhostile sense of humour – do not make fun of others and are conscious of other people’s feelings
Start your journey of self actualization today
Start your journey to self actualisation today. Simply sign up for our newsletter below to download your FREE copy of “Power Principles for Discovering the REAL YOU.” It has many insightful articles on the subject of self actualisation as well things that you can do on a daily basis in the course of your daily affairs to become a self actualised person.
Stop living like a caterpillar and become the beautiful butterfly you were meant to be.
New! CommentsHave your say about what you just read! Leave me a comment in the box below.
Other Books By Dr. Moses:
"Powerful And Life-Changing Lessons On How To Maximise Your Potential And Live Your Dreams"
Power Principles for Fearless & Abundant Living
"How To Let Go of Fear and Embrace Prosperity"
In the POWER PRINCIPLES series of books, Dr. Moses Simuyemba, "Africa's Success Coach", shares his knowledge, experience and insight to help you in overcoming your personal challenges and limitations and inspire you towards the life you desire and deserve: a life of greater purpose, free of fear and full of abundance.